Anonymous
May 25, 2:33 PM
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I’m a 19F first year student and honestly I feel lost. Ive been with my bf for 4 years. Before coming to Chennai, life felt peaceful and stable. But after joining college, everything around me changed. Most of my friends are into casual relationships and slowly my mindset started changing too.
Yesterday I went to my female frnd’s apartment in Nungambakkam. She already has a boyfriend, but she slept the night with another guy. His friend was there too… and I don’t know what happened to me in that moment. I gave in, and now I regret it so badly.
My boyfriend still doesn’t know anything. I feel guilty and disappointed in myself. Idk whether I should tell him or just stay silent.
I hate myself for what I did.
Yesterday I went to my female frnd’s apartment in Nungambakkam. She already has a boyfriend, but she slept the night with another guy. His friend was there too… and I don’t know what happened to me in that moment. I gave in, and now I regret it so badly.
My boyfriend still doesn’t know anything. I feel guilty and disappointed in myself. Idk whether I should tell him or just stay silent.
I hate myself for what I did.
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Anonymous
Hi
Anonymous
Hi
Anonymous
Hey there. 19m here. I feel you. Even the best of us sometimes get carried away and do things we don't want to do. Feels great in the moment, we regret it later. I'd say, if you can't change it, stop worrying about it. Might as well do something to make peace with the situation. I'd start by telling your BF. I'm sure he's gonna be very pissed, might cut you off, and I hope he loves you enough to understand where you're coming from, but telling him is the right thing to do. As for my case, I got in a violent altercation that changed somebody's life for the worst. I felt good doing it, but then got consumed by a world of regret later. It hurts. The only thing that helped me make peace was talking it out with the affected party. Anyways, hope you're better. I'm in KTR if you ever wanna hang. Tc👍
Anonymous
The same 19m
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I think it's better to be open with your boyfriend as you're feeling guilty and sort things out with him . Being in casuals is not wrong provided you're clear with your relationship . I wish you good luck