There's this girl I really like. She's dark skinned, pretty, petite and very kind and we get along very well. Our conversations last for hours, and we're very clingy - you'd swear we are a couple. We're very comfortable with each other physically, and sometimes it really feels like we're dating now my issue is that I really want us to date and be official, but whenever I bring it up, she pushes it away or says I'll ruin what we have as friends. That's not enough for me. She has told me she loves me a couple of times and I tell her I love her too, so I don't understand what's stopping us from being a couple. She always says we're really good friends, and that frustrates me. Please help me how do I make her my girl officially? She has become my happy place.